Keeping the Romance Alive In A Marriage

It doesn’t matter if you and your spouse have been married one year or twenty years there will be times that you or your spouse will think the fire is out in the relationship. Before you let it get that far you should try some things to get that little spark back and who knows you might even see fireworks again. Try a picnic but not an outside one be romantic and have a picnic on the bed. 

Get some fruit preferably yours and your spouse’s favorite like strawberry and blueberries then buy some chocolate and maybe some nice sliced cheese and crackers. Get those candles out and set them throughout the room light them up when you hear your spouse coming through the hallway and then put on some slow music. This way you and your spouse can spend countless hours just talking and feeding one another and get in some cuddle time.

Do something different like start leaving voice messages for your spouse then the next day a sexy text message. Keep doing this but also changing it up a little for at least thirty days. You will be surprised at the reaction you will get back or at home when they arrive after work. At least once a week spend a little quality time together snuggling in the bath tub with some bubbles. Maybe even toss some flower petals on the floor and into the water with some slow sexy tunes playing softly in the background.

Each of you get a box and some paper on each piece write something sweet, sexy or romantic on it then put it in the box. Whether before work or after work each day for thirty days you will take one of the notes out and read it. This has become a hit with most couples because it always brings a smile to their face and sometimes a tear but of joy not sadness.

If you and your spouse like to enjoy an alcoholic beverage every now and then you should take it easy one night and sit back and look at through a photo album of all the good times you both have had over time. Most couples enjoy poems or poetry if this is something you like then take one night from the week and turn on the mobile phones, computers and television and ready poetry to one another. You will be shocked at how romantic that can turn out on a cozy night of cuddling with the love of your life.

Do you both have a sweet tooth if so then make a banana split or a sundae with each other’s favorite topping and share it by feeding one another. Who knows you both might get a little frisky and start flinging some whip cream at each other for some fun time. If you have the extra money in the budget then take a couple of days off and go out of town for a few days. Get away from work and just spend some special one on one time together.

Games can be fun but you can spice them up especially your favorite games like maybe strip poker or get friendly with some twister fun. If the woman of your life adores flowers bring her a different kind once a day for a couple of weeks. This will put a big grin on her face and let her know you still care.

There is nothing more romantic that receiving a love letter from the person you adore so much and when you get done writing it then you might want to think about adding a splash of perfume or cologne. If you both enjoy a good stroll at night especially if you live near a beach that would make any woman melt into the arms of the person she was meant to spend the rest of her life with. 


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